Category Archives: Nursing Home

Begin “Our Long Goodbye” Here

Thank you for visiting “Our Long Goodbye.”  I began my blog in July of 2012 and ended it in November of 2012, a few months after my mom died of Alzheimer’s.   I used the blog genre as a way to … Continue reading

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Don’t Look Back

After we make arrangements at Horan’s Funeral Home, we go to my dad’s for lunch.  As I pull my leftover half a sub out of his refrigerator, I can’t help but think that when I ordered and paid for it … Continue reading

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Prayer for the Departed

I wrote my mom’s obituary over a year ago when she first went to Golden Age.  We suspected she was going there to die, but she lasted another fourteen months. Four days before she died, I gave a printed copy of … Continue reading

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Last Day

I sit with Mom on Thursday after work.  She’s sleeping so deeply that even when I put a wet sponge in her open mouth to moisten it, she doesn’t stir.  I wash her face with a warm wash cloth and … Continue reading

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Photo Op

Hospice has provided a hospital bed for my mom to keep her head elevated and more comfortable.  The nurse tells my dad that they will leave Mom in bed from now on and turn her every two hours to keep … Continue reading

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The Original Facebook

When I visit Mom at Golden Age today she sleeps the whole time, even when a CNA moves her from a recliner to her bed down the hall.  Like a sleeping baby carried from car to house, she never even … Continue reading

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Hook Line and Sinker

I look through my CD’s for any “oldies” to bring to my mom’s room.  Anything that would soothe her or at least fill the silence when no one is here with her.  Today I play Cole Porter.    Night and day, you … Continue reading

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